How To Find Happiness After a Breakup

You just ended your relationship and you now feel like your world is coming to an end. You have entered the mourning stage; it is now okay to grieve.  After the grieving it is time to move, and clench your single life. You can choose to live a joyous or despair single life, the choice is yours.

The way to be happy when you are single is to understand what there is to be happy about.  Do not think about how lonely you, instead shift your focus onto some other positive emotion, such as your “FREEDOM”.

Your freedom is something worth focusing on! You can do what you want, when you want, without having to answer to anyone.  Freedom is something to enjoy and take advantage of as it gives you the independence to do what you want to do to benefit you.

Be happy that you have complete and total freedom right now. It's not that you will lose your freedom completely when you are in a relationship, but there will be much more compromising going on when you are.

You also have the freedom to discover who you really are and what makes you truly happy in life without having to take someone else's life into consideration. When you get into a relationship you are often influenced by your partners likes, dislikes, and beliefs. They can cause you to rethink your own likes, dislikes, and beliefs - especially if you are not sure what they are to begin with.

Many people enter a relationship at a very young age and find they don't know who they truly are as they older because they never had a chance to discover themselves without influence. This is the great thing about single right now; you can take the time to figure out who you are. This is something that you should appreciate as it will make you a much stronger partner when you do get into a relationship.

Take this time to figure out what you really enjoy and where you really want to go in life. You have no one influencing your dreams and desires with theirs, so take advantage of it.  Dream big and go after your dreams

Remember that in order to be happy while you are single, you have to shift your focus to things that are worth being happy about. Freedom is the ultimate thing to appreciate when you are single. Take a look around and figure out what type of freedom you are happy about.

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